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My Long Overdue Apology to Taylor Swift (that no one asked for but I still felt compelled to write)

by Hattie

All right, buckle up, it’s been over a year since I last posted and that last post was (you guessed it) also about Taylor Swift. I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while, but felt embarrassed/ashamed to write it. “All these people think love’s for show” I’ll try to keep it simple: Back in 2016 I developed a theory involving Taylor and...

September 4, 2020

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Taylor Swift Predicted Her Own Future When She Wrote “The Lucky One” in 2012

by Hattie

If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to Instagram it, does it make a sound? – Taylor Swift, Oct. 2108 A handful of summers back, I found myself on a boat on a large river in northern Idaho. As we motored along the water, someone pointed to a large brown home that sat at the water’s edge with pastures...

August 14, 2019

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February 19, 2018

Talking About Dating Anxiety + Love on GROUP Podcast

When Rebecca Lee Douglas first reached out to me to ask if she could interview me for her podcast, GROUP,...

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October 4, 2016

Breaking Habits We Don’t Even Know We Have

In my suggested readings section of this site I mention the book “The Power of Habit” by Charles Duhigg....

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You’re Not Alone if You Feel Nervous About Dating

Something really cool has happened over the past few years. I started this blog in 2013. It began as...

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I Hung Out With a Friend While He Tried to Work Up Courage to Tell a Girl She Was...

We hovered around him like buzzards surrounding a fresh carcass. “Just get in and get out,” Friend 1 shouted...

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Social Media Sometimes Makes Me Feel Miserable, So I Took a Break

Back in June I started to notice something every time I logged onto Twitter: it made me feel terrible....

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Why You Should Meet that Online Crush in Person Sooner Rather than Later

I was supposed to be working on my writing exercise. After telling myself I was going to attend a...

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Interview with Comedian Samantha Ruddy

If you haven’t heard of Samantha Ruddy yet you will soon enough. She is one of the funniest women...

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Rebuilding that Confidence like an OG

As I sat and read through more and more of my statuses from 4, 5, 6 years back I...

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